I am seriously beginning to HATE four way stops. I think I just might start avoiding them altogether.
If you come to a four way stop, the person on the RIGHT who got there first goes first. This isnt some sort of social junction where you can spend time smiling at me or acting like you are king of the road and wave me or anyone else thru. If you want to be a traffic cop, go to school and get a uniform.
In the meantime, however - learn how to drive.